When we lived in Utah, we had the BEST swimming teacher and the best situation for swimming lessons that I possibly could have asked for. David Perkins is such a kind, easygoing and encouraging coach and was so good for my kids.
To illustrate, I want to give two examples.
After he had been working with us for quite a while and had time to get to know each child, their strengths and apprehensions, he asked me if Michael happened to have been born premature. This caught me totally off guard because it was so out of the blue and I had never hinted anything about our history of premature deliveries to him ever before. The conversation that ensued involved my filling him in on our roster of premature babies and Mr. Perkins making a correlation between lack of confidence in the water and premature delivery. The two children who gestated (for lack of a better word) long enough to avoid the NICU also happen to be my most fearless and capable swimmers. I was pretty blown away by the fact that Mr. Perkins was able to tell, and probably could have picked which ones had been in the NICU without my having to tell him.
When my sister Angie and her husband Jeff took a trip to Ireland last year, we got their kids for a whole week and it was SO much fun. They also have 5 children, who correspond beautifully in age and gender to ours, giving everyone well-matched playmates....but that's a post for another day. We had sole responsibility for these 5 kids for a week, and we decided to take them to swimming lessons with us. I texted Mr. Perkins ahead of time and he rolled out the red carpet for our guests. He arranged for deeply discounted admission to the pool and spent extra time (he was always very generous with his time) to involve our cousins in the lessons.
Because the weeks leading up to our move were so crazy, we did not get to say a proper goodbye OR a proper thank you. As we've been getting settled into our new home on the other side of the country, every now and then I have noticed our swimming bag full of towels and suits sitting all lonely-like in the corner and I have this reminder of the fact that we left without saying thank you.
So, in case you feel like this video is a little over-the-top, just know that it has been on my mind for several months, and I want Mr. Perkins to know how deeply grateful I am to him for what he has taught my kids. I get a little teary knowing that we walked away from the ideal swimming lessons situation and will probably never have anything so perfect like this ever again. But I hope that maybe sometimes when we visit, we can arrange a token lesson or two, and be able to see Mr. Perkins again.



