Sunday, October 10, 2010

Well here she is

Our dear family and friends-
As predicted, they changed Emily's diagnosis to something like "placenta somethingus latinus" where the placenta is attached to the septum of the uterus (not everybody has a septum...and not everybody has a uterus). But that was yesterday or so. Today, Emily was not feeling as well as she was yesterday and started bleeding early this afternoon. By the time I got there, they were concerned for the baby's heart rate which had dipped to the 90s when it should be in the 140s. An LDS hospital staffer and I administered a priesthood blessing. Then things began to happen very quickly with hospital staff literally sprinting to get stuff and to run her bed into the operating room. Apparently her placenta had completely abrupted. Had we not been so "close" to the hospital things would have worked out on the other side of the spectrum. However, as a result of your many prayers and our good care here, they simply knocked Emily out and about 11 minutes later we had a new baby:

Angelyn Ricks
950 grams
35 centimeters long
(I'm giving the info out in metric because that's what hospital used and i figure it'll catch on and everything will be in metric soon. Especially 5Ks.)


When I told Emily about Angelyn's blond peach fuzz hair she simply replied, "big surprise." Both are resting well right now. They do have a lot of wires and things hooked up to them but most of it is simply precautionary or monitoring. Angelyn is very fragile, but they've got her in a warm incubator. She's on several medicines but nothing unusual for a girl who showed up so early to her own birthday party. The oxygen mix they have her on is very close to the same percentage that regular people breath (minus the smog), but it's going directly to her lungs.

I wish I could tell you more but it's still early and we're just getting to know her ourselves. Right now, even Emily has only seen photos I took of her baby and it's probably going to be months before Angelyn is ready to go home. She's got to grow and remember to breathe and know how to eat. But she's healthy for where she is in her life and we're optimistic and putting our trust in the Lord. Thank you all for your much needed support and prayers. The Lord has certainly blessed us through your many helping hands. We'll never be able to express to you how important it has been, is, and will be as we strive to help our little Angelyn climb this peak.

Thank you,
Weston, Emily, and Angelyn

Attached are a few photos of our family. Those who were not born today we're photographed on Thursday during a family dinner party in her "ante-natal" room. She'll be resting for the next several hours or day but feel free to send her an email. Angelyn has chosen to concentrate on growing and will not be able to visit with anyone for the foreseeable future but was happy to pose for the photos.


Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Hospital Update

Well, it has been a rough couple of days but I am feeling much better. Just wanted to post an update. As of this morning, the prognosis from my excellent doctors is that I will be staying in the hospital until I deliver. Initially we thought that if the bleeding and contractions could stop and I could prove stable long enough, the docs would see fit to send me home on bed rest. However, the concensus from the docs at the ultrasound this morning is that I have a blood clot draining from my uterus that was caused by a partial placental abruption. That being the case, it would be unwise for me to go home because it is impossible to predict when more abruption could occur.

I find a certain irony in the knowledge that the longer I stay in the hospital, the better. Technically I am not due until January 5th! But right now we are going to focus on taking it one week at a time. Our goal is to make it to 28 weeks, which is the cut-off age for the NICU at this hospital.

The first two days I was here I was bombarded with every treatment and precaution known to medicine to help babies that come so prematurely. Steroids, magnesium, you name it. It was brutal but now it is over and we get to just play the waiting game.

I called my parents' on Tuesday to talk to the kids and was flooded with emotion and memories of the hospital torture I endured for each one of them. And now they are the greatest blessings in my life. I know there will eventually come a time when these next few months will all just be a distant memory.

In the mean time, we are just going to do the best we can to get through and be grateful.
Thank you so much for all your thoughts and prayers. We know we have really been blessed and have felt the power of your prayers in our behalf. We are so grateful that our baby is still in utero will praise and be thankful for every precious golden day she stays there.

Hospital Bedrest....how we got here.

Dear Family and Friends-
Some of you know Emily has gone into the hospital due to pregnancy complications. First, let me assure you who may be learning this for the first time that things are going well. Second, if you don't mind, I'll give you some of the details because we'd very much like to share them with you and let you know our status, but I'm also lazy so I want to get most of the story out there all at once. Emily had some vaginal bleeding and went into the hospital last night (Sunday night) around 10:30pm. Things simmered down and they released us about 2am with a prescription for antibiotics for a bladder infection. I went to bed and Emily ate a sandwich ( I cut up some tomato for her). Anyway, the bleeding started up again and at five am Emily and I were off again to the Hospital. She was losing anywhere between 50 to 75 cc's of blood an hour. Contractions were about 5 minutes apart. The doctor was getting everything in order for an c-section just in case. That means, no food for Emily. An active I.V. in one arm and another ready in the other arm. A bunch of different drugs, via the IV: an antibiotic for the infection, an anti-inflammatory for the bladder discomfort, a magnesium sulfate that disperses the contractions, a steroid for the baby's lungs. At one point the doctor was getting us ready to airlift Emily to a more NICU intensive hospital in SLC but the perinatalogists wouldn't let her go while she was still bleeding. Plan B was for them to try and manage the case here (in Mt Timpanogos Hospital). This hospital is set up to take care of babies who are at least 28 weeks along. Emily is at 26.5 weeks and the ultrasound measurements put the kid at 25ish and weighing in at 1 pound 15 ounces so the little one would be stabilized right after c-section and then whisked up to St. Marks in SLC. Even at this point, 80% of the babies born at 26 weeks do well but at 28 weeks it bumps to 90% and the group with long-term challenges is reduced further.

Luckily, Emily's bleeding slowed down some but the clotting factors in her blood also went down (normally an inverse relationship). The lab ran the test twice to make sure the results were correct. Both results showed that she was dangerously low and could risk bleeding a lot more. Plus, with her outward bleeding slowing down (to 40 to 50 cc's), the blood must be going somewhere else, possibly pooling above the cervix. She was prepped for some blood transfusions which, if they didn't restore her clotting factors to proper levels, would push us to the c-section immediately. Luckily, throughout this whole ordeal, the baby's heart-rate was undisturbed and strong so instead of immediately getting the transfusion, the doctor took the time and ordered one more round of blood tests. Please understand that Emily was getting blood drawn (not counting the blood loss she was having) every one to two hours and they kept poking a needle into the one arm without the active IV (they even tried once on her foot), each time more painful it seemed than the last. And her veins we increasingly difficult to draw from. At one point they even had the anesthesiologist give it a go and it took him several attempts to get it done. She's been a bit of a pin cushion and her left arm is bruised from it all.

Even as the transfusion supplies were prepped and wheeled into our room, the new tests came back with an amazingly high count of clotting factors. The nurses rushed in with the good news that the transfusion was no longer needed (at least for now) and a moment later they also found out that the doctor reduced the blood draws from one hour to two. Emotionally, it was a huge release for the two of us. It pushed back the inevitable c-section to give Emily's body time to continue to work out the bleeding and give the antibiotics time to have an impact on the bladder infection (the presumed cause of the early labor). We also learned from the ultrasound that the placenta is secure but has a bit of a node that has grown over the cervix making it placenta previa instead of a blood clot over the cervix (thats kind of like finding out that contrary to news reports your house didn't burn down, instead, it was an earthquake) Still, pretty good news since that meant that it wasn't a placenta abruption (a likely cause for unexplained bleeding).

Over the last hours, things have simmered down enough that, as I write this, it is about 10:30 pm and she has snatched a few moments of sleep. The last pad they pulled from her bed didn't have any blood on it. The nurse just told us that they won't probably have to draw her blood again. Medications in her IV will go at least until 6am on Wednesday but she might be able to eat again tomorrow afternoon. Right now, regardless of how things go, Emily will be in the hospital at least for observation for the next several days.

Throughout this ordeal, I've been reminded of the strength of the mothers in my life: Emily, my mom, my mother-in-law, my sister and sisters in law. Each of them work a wonderful miracle with each new spirit they bring into this world. Emily has shown tremendous courage in her efforts to nurture and care for the dear little life developing within her in the face of very real dangers to her own wellbeing. It reminds me of some thoughts Elder Holland shared about motherhood: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WbYLKVgwztY&feature=player_embedded#!
Indeed, angels have watched over Emily today and we have relied on the Lord. As of this writing, things are calm. The baby's heart-rate continues to be strong and distinct. She must be a brave little trooper to put up with all the extra noise and the probing and the poking of her mother and we look forward to meeting her and introducing her to you. However, with your continued prayers, we hope that meeting will not happen for another few weeks. We are grateful for each of you and for your friendship and your prayers.

Weston

Monday, September 27, 2010

Highlights From Family Home Evening

Family Home Evening at our house lasts an average of 10 minutes every Monday night.
Tonight we caught most of it on video. Here are a couple of highlights I wanted to share:

Annelise usually leads the opening song, which is always Love At Home. If you watch closely you can see her sing the word "home."


Adam gave the lesson, which was a repeat of the talk he gave in primary. His performance tonight was more articulate than it was on Sunday. Still, the transcript has been included for you below because I'm good like that.



Jesus Christ taught the people, "If ye love me, keep my commandments."

Jesus commanded us to be baptized.

Jesus commanded us to forgive. If someone hurts you, then you say, "It's okay, I still love you."

Jesus said love everyone. Treat them kindly, too.

He told a story about a traveler attacked by robbers....and left him on the side of the road to die.
Two people passed by and did not help. A third person passed by. He was a good Samaritan.
He stopped to help. He carried that man to an inn and left money for his care.

Jesus taught us how to be kind. We can be happy if we follow his commandments.

In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Dad: Amen
Annelise: Baby's turn!


Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Happy Birthday, sweet sweet girl!

I don't know where the time has gone....

She is already TWO!!
She is the personification of joy.


She was MUCH more excited about the cake before we lit the candles.




Sunday, July 11, 2010

Recent Pics

Grace, these are for you.
....ahem....
and everyone else who is familiar with/disappointed by my blogging slackerhood.
Grace asked to see some recent photos of the kids so here they are.
I LOVE this photo of Adam. It is such a perfect moment captured, showing him doing what he does best....finding bugs. His expression is so sincere and his eyes as big as ever.
Here is Peter at his preschool graduation. His teacher did such a cute job of dressing them in cap and gown. Pete got to be the flag-bearer and lead the processional. He had a great year at preschool. Ms. Roper did so many fun and interesting things with the kids.
I tried to find some photos to capture Annelise's beautiful curls. They are the most flouncy after I have given her a bath, but even after a full day's work, they mostly remain. She is so beautiful, and her facial expressions are hilarious. Weston once jokingly suggested he might just cut her curls off when I wasn't home. I'm pretty sure I threatened him with death.